"we are not the same persons this year as last. nor are those we love. it is a happy chance if we, changing, continue to love the changed person."

..::.w. somerset maugham.::..

"it all made sense now. and from the vantage point of retrospect, all seemed necessary, so that he can be exactly where he was. happy. we'll all get there."

..::.to those nights/wong fu productions.::..

"Although fiercely independent, he has had time to reflect on himself and his relationships. Despite his wanderlust, he knows and appreciates his ties to home. He has had a chance to miss and be missed. Because of this, he also knows a thing or two about goodbyes. He knows the overwhelming uncertainty of leaving the comforts of home, the indefinite see-you-laters at the departure gates, and yet he fearlessly goes into the unknown because he knows the feeling of return. And that the I’ve-missed-you-hug is the best type of hug in the whole world. He also knows that goodbyes are just prolonged see-you-laters and that ‘hello’ is only as far away as the nearest internet cafe."

..::.lainnnes via love story from the male perspective.::..

Over, I can't believe it's over
I can't believe the love I lived
To show some other day

Listen, I hope that you can hear me
As I kneel down and pray
With the love I meant to say

Shadows, you took away the shadows
Before your life was black and white
Though tonight the room's gone gray

Golden, all the love you gave was golden
Golden, I would gladly pay,
To show the love I meant to say

Oh, music you made me hear, such music
Without you here to guide me,
I feel as though I'll fly away

Sorry, that's the word I want to sing to you
The other word is stay
To hear the love I meant to say

..::.smash.::..

David: That's why you're not sleeping. This can't go on.
Spencer: I realise that the socially acceptable amount of time to wallow in grief is coming to an end.
David: That's not what I mean. You wallow as long as you need. But talk to someone.
Spencer: I feel like there are two types of people in this world. Ones that get over their grief and move on. And the ones that descend into some sort of endless misery.
David: I know how you feel. Give it time.
Spencer: How much time? I thought by coming to work everyday and helping other people, the pain would lessen. But it hasn't.
David: Compartmentalisation only works so long.
Spencer: You know that I remember every single word we ever said to each other.
David: Finally, the down side to an eidetic memory. Listen, Spencer, if you want to feel better. You can't control the process. You have to let yourself grief.
Spencer: I'm not sleeping because when I do, I dream of her. When I see her, I feel the sweetest relief imaginable. ... I know if I give in to that fantasy, I'd be lost forever. So, I force myself to wake up. Is that part of normal healing?

..::.criminal minds.::..

Come on skinny love just last the year
Pour a little salt we were never here
My, my, my, my, my, my, my, my
Staring at the sink of blood and crushed veneer

I tell my love to wreck it all
Cut out all the ropes and let me fall
My, my, my, my, my, my, my, my
Right in the moment this order's tall

And I told you to be patient
And told you to be fine
And I told you to be balanced
And I told you to be kind
In the morning I'll be with you
But it will be a different kind
I'll be holding all the tickets
And you'll be owning all the fines

Come on skinny love what happened here
Suckle on the hope in lite brassiere
My, my, my, my, my, my, my, my
Sullen load is full; so slow on the split

And I told you to be patient
And I told you to be fine
And I told you to be balanced
And I told you to be kind
And now all your love is wasted?
And then who the hell was I?
And now I'm breaking at the britches
And at the end of all your lines

Who will love you?
Who will fight?
Who will fall far behind?

..::.birdy.::..

The Player: Generally speaking, things have gone about as far as they can possibly go, when things have gotten about as bad as they can reasonably get.

We are tragedians, you see? We follow directions. There is no choice involved. The bad end unhappily, the good, unluckily. That is what tragedy means.

..::.rosencrantz & guildenstern are dead.::..

Another shot of whiskey please bartender
Keep it coming till I don't remember at all
How bad it hurts when you're gone

Turn the music up a little bit louder
Just gotta get past the midnight hour

Maybe tomorrow it won't
Be
This
Hard

Who am I kidding?
I know what I'm missing

I had my heart set on you
But nothing else hurts like you do
Who knew that love was so cruel?

And I..
Waited and waited so long
For someone who'll never come home
It's my fault to think you'll be true
I'm just a fool

I said that I don't care I'd walk away, whatever
And I tell myself we were bad together
But that's just me trying to move on
With
Out
You

But who am I kidding
I know what I'm missing

I had my heart set on you
But nothing else hurts like you do
Who knew that love was so cruel?

And I Waited and waited so long
For someone who'll never come home
It's my fault to think you'll be true

I'm just a fool
For holding on to something that
Is never ever gonna come back
I can't accept that it's lost

I should have let it go
Held my tongue
Kept my big mouth shut
'Cause now everything is just wrong, wrong, wrong

I'm just a fool
A fool for you
I'm just a fool

I had my heart set on you
But nothing else hurts like you do
Who knew that love was so cruel?

And I Waited and waited so long
For someone who'll never come home
It's my fault to think you'll be true

I'm just a fool


..::.christina aguilera & blake shelton.::..

Didn't I give it all?
Tried my best
Gave you everything I had
Everything and no less

Didn't I do it right?
Did I let you down?
Maybe you got too used to
Having me around

Still how can you walk away
From all my tears?
It's gonna be an empty road
Without me right here

But go on and take it
Take it all with you
Don't look back
At this crumbling fool

Just take it all
With my love
Take it all
With my love

Maybe I should leave
To help you see
Nothing is better than this
And this is everything we need

So is it over?
Is this really it?
You're giving up so easily
I thought you loved me more than this

But go on, go on and take it
Take it all with you
Don't look back
At this crumbling fool

Just take it all
With my love
Take it all
With my love

I will change if I must
Slow it down and bring it home, I will adjust
Oh, if only, if only you knew
Everything I do is for you

But go on, go on and take it
Take it all with you
Don't look back At this crumbling fool
Just take it Take it all with you
Don't look back At this crumbling fool
Just take it all With my love
Take it all With my love

..::.adele.::..

Inside every ending to something we’ve grown so attached to lies a small bit of hope.

Even if we don’t believe it can hold us up, we hold onto that hope just because there’s nothing else for us to grab onto to keep us from falling.

..::.boymeetslove.::..